What Really Scares YOU?

by DEE on February 3, 2012

‘Bravery is the capacity to perform properly even when scared half to death.’ – Omar N. Bradley

What Really Scares You?

Dee Britton

What really scares you? For some people, it’s the idea of constantly being in debt and not having enough money at the end of every month. For others, it’s not finding a fabulous partner to spend your life with. While others it’s missing out on or passing up an opportunity that may never come around again… in business… in their personal lives…in their relationships… in their childhood dreams.

But do you know one thing that I have found out over the years and it really surprised me; a lot of people are actually scared of success. That’s right, not of failing, but being successful. They are afraid of taking 100% responsible for what happens in their lives because they are so used to blaming others – their boss… their spouse… their circumstances… or life… for whatever it is that they feel is missing.

Did you know that only 3% of the population enjoys real financial independence, while the other 97% goes on fighting a daily war against lack… against disappointment… against settling for less than they KNOW they deserve?

These wealthy 3% have the same 24 hours in a day that everybody else has and most of them even face the same problems and roadblocks as everyone else… although, granted, maybe at a higher or more expensive level – with a lot more to lose.

So what is it that makes these 3% so much wealthier than the 97%?

They have a can-do attitude, they have coaches and mentors and they have systems. They have a structured approach to staying in the flow of money, along with the flow of encouragement, resources, advice and opportunities that come with success, which in turn leads to more success. For a long time, I held on to the false belief that only the truly wealthy could be wealthy and I was doomed to struggle. I always thought that to really be a successful entrepreneur, you had to have a bundle of start up capital for equipment, buildings, employees, inventory, or top secret plans for the next blockbuster consumer product.

But over the years as I have grown personally through investing in myself and gaining greater skills I found out it had nothing to do with how much money or how many advantages you have. Many of the biggest names you know either started with nothing, or lost it all more than once and had to start over. Being an entrepreneur is about being willing to take a risk and try a new way of thinking when most people are going the other way. That’s what scares the heck out of most people… and that’s why only 3% of us ever become really wealthy. I know this because I was part of the other 97%.

Would you like to become one of the 3%ers with me?

I know that you have got so many ideas because all of us entrepreneurs have. But right now you are just one idea away from earning in a month, or even in a week, what you once dreamed of earning in an entire year. Think for just a moment… and I mean really picture it in your mind… what difference an extra five or ten thousand dollars a month would make in your life?

The only thing standing between you and that money right now is the willingness to try a new way of thinking… to reach out of your comfort zone and do what the other 97% are not willing to do. To do the opposite to the 97%. And it all starts with your thinking and creating a plan. What thoughts are constantly going around in your head that are holding you back? I can’t do that… that won’t work….. Nobody will buy from me…..

For years you have had these ideas and never acted on them. Are you really scared of being a success? What would that mean to you and your family? What would people think? What would they say?

Aren’t you sick of playing small?

Where are you going to be in 5 years time if you don’t get out of your comfort zone and act on one of your ideas?

I would love to hear about what has been holding you back and why you have been playing small. I am here to help you clear your head and make a plan.

Click here to request a 30 minute complimentary exploratory session. I am looking forward to helping you move forward and play big as one of the 3%ers.

To health, happiness & living the life of YOUR dreams.

Dee  :-)

About The Author

Dee Britton is a Health & Happiness Coach, Certified Hypnotist, NLP Master Practitioner, Neuro-Linguistic Coach and Qualified Personal Trainer providing helpful tips, tools and coaching packages to help you feel better about yourself than you ever have before by teaching you how to put yourself first. Her programs and products will ensure you easily replace unwanted habits and effectively create forever change.

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‘If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you’ll achieve the same results’. – Tony Robbins

Where Will You Be Five Years From Now – Still Dreaming or Actually Doing?

Dee Britton

Recently I read a story about a shoe-shine lady who worked at Phoenix airport. This lady was friendly and happy, even though she started work in the early hours of the morning and worked long days.

She had just found out that her daughter had won a cheerleading contest and she was so proud of her. Her daughter was hoping to go to cheerleading camp in Dallas but the mother had no idea how she was going to find the money to buy her uniform and plane ticket, let alone pay for the camp tuition.

The shoe-shine lady loved to share her life with her customers and from the stories she told it was obvious that she loved her family, made friends easily and was a natural born communicator. She was well spoken, carried herself well and was very friendly. She also clearly enjoyed shining shoes.

It was great that she did enjoy her work as she had been doing it for 5 years.

When the shoe-shine lady was not busy with her customers she would pass the time by reading popular novels, vicariously living in someone else’s imagined romance. She would always have a pile of them sitting dog eared by the wall of her shoe-shine stand.

It just makes me wonder – what if?

What if, instead of spending ten or fifteen minutes here and there, between customers, lost in the pages of those romantic novels, she had spent the last five years reading books that were generally life changing?

What if her stack of books included Napolen Hill’s Think and Grow Rich, Steven Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, David Bach’s Smart Women Finish Rich?

Where would she be today?

The shoe-shine woman was good with people, a hard worker, a good reader and clearly enjoyed what she did. She had talent, personality and basic life skills to accomplish a lot more than just living off tips from shining the shoes of people who could afford to pay for their kid’s uniforms, plane tickets and camp tuition.

Why was she spending her life building other people’s dreams and not her own?

Now I am sure that you have heard this before – Your income tends to equal the average of the incomes of your five best friends. What if she was spending more time around people with significantly higher incomes than her own? What if she had been associating with powerful people, successful people, mentors, leaders? She was a terrific conversationalist and could be doing this easily.

If she had been doing this for the past 5 years, where would she be today?

Now I am not saying that people who live on modest incomes or work in simple occupations don’t live lives rich in relationships and joy, just as wealthy people aren’t always extremely happy. And I am not saying that people shouldn’t get carried away in popular novels. But when it is clear that people are struggling and want to get more out of life, then why don’t they have it? Why aren’t they living a fulfilled and successful life? Why aren’t they doing things to help move forward?

This woman had so much potential but was stuck shining shoes.

What was missing?

What is missing in your life?

Everything that you need to know to change your life for the better is already available. All the information that you could possibly need to put you on a path of extraordinary success and fulfilment is already out there, in books and audios, in videos and workshops.

There are people to help you – rich living resources to guide you, to be your mentor, your teacher, your coach and your new friend.

The difference between who you are and who you could be isn’t based on any lack of great information and resources. Everything is already available.

But why if the information is all there, the resources are all there are you not living the life that you truly want to life, in the happy and healthy body that you truly desire?

Isn’t it time that you starting making the right choices, doing those simple, little disciplines that would change your life for the better forever?

Where are you going to be five years from today if you just start TODAY!

**If you or someone you know would enjoy a complimentary “Change your Mind, Change Your Body, Change your Life, Forever” exploratory session, please request your private session here  or email me at info@feelingfabulousforever.com .
In your session you will:
• Create a crystal clear vision for the kind of body that you would be happy to see naked and the kind of life that you’d really like to have
• Uncover hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your success in creating your ideal body
• Create a 5-part strategic action plan you can get started on right away
• You will leave the session renewed, re-energized and inspired to feel better than you ever have before
You will also find out how you can get more support to move powerfully and confidentially forward on your path to loving your body and loving your life!
To claim your session, just email me at dee@feelingfabulousforever.com

To health, happiness & living the life of YOUR dreams.

Dee :-)

About The Author

Dee Britton is a Health & Happiness Coach, Certified Hypnotist, NLP Master Practitioner, Neuro-Linguistic Coach and Qualified Personal Trainer providing helpful tips, tools and coaching packages to help you feel better about yourself than you ever have before by teaching you how to put yourself first. Her programs and products will ensure you easily replace unwanted habits and effectively create forever change.

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